Athletics & Wellness
Grade 7
45 min
Solving Team Disagreements Constructively
This lesson teaches you how to solve disagreements with teammates in a positive way. Learning this skill helps build a stronger, more successful, and more fun team for everyone!
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What & Why
On any team, people will have different ideas and opinions. That's normal! A disagreement is just a problem waiting to be solved. Constructive conflict resolution means solving these problems in a way that respects everyone and strengthens the team, instead of hurting it.The goal isn't to 'win' an argument. The goal is to find the best solution for the team. When you handle disagreements well, you build trust and show that you're a leader who cares about including others.
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Example 1 — Choosing a Practice Drill
The Situation: During practice, half the soccer team wants to do a shooting drill, but the other half wants to do a passing drill. The conversation is getting loud and no one is listening.Constructive Steps:Pause & Listen: The team captain, Maya, calls everyone into a huddle. She asks each group to quickly explain *why* they want to do their chosen drill.Find the Common Goal: The shooting group wants to score more goals in the next game. The passing group thinks better passing will lead to more scoring opportunities. Both groups want the same thing: a better offense.Brainstorm & Compromise: Maya suggests a solution. 'How about we do 15 minutes of the passing drill that ends with a shot on goal? That way, we practice both skills.'Agree & Move On: The team agrees this is a fair compromise. T...
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Example 2 — A Missed Play
The Situation: In a volleyball game, two players, Liam and Chloe, both go for the ball and end up missing it, costing their team a point. Liam says, 'You should have called it!' Chloe says, 'I thought you had it!'Constructive Steps:Avoid Blame: Instead of arguing about whose fault it was, they need to solve the communication problem.Use 'I' and 'We' Statements: Between points, Liam says, 'My bad, I should have communicated better. Next time, let's make sure the closest person calls it loudly.'Agree on a Plan: Chloe agrees. 'Okay, I'll be sure to yell 'Mine!' or 'You!' really clearly.' They give each other a high-five.Focus on the Future: They solved the problem for the *next* time it happens. They didn't waste energy blaming each other for the past. This makes them better teammates.
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Beginner
What is the main goal of solving a team disagreement constructively?
A.To find a solution that strengthens the whole team.
B.To prove that your idea was the right one all along.
C.To make the other person apologize for disagreeing.
D.To avoid talking about the problem so no one gets upset.
Beginner
Two teammates are arguing about who should take the final shot. The coach isn't nearby. What is the BEST first step for them to take?
A.Quickly and calmly discuss who has the better matchup or is feeling more confident.
B.Argue until one person gives up.
C.Neither of them takes the shot to prove a point.
D.Ask a random teammate to decide for them.
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Which of the following is the best example of an 'I feel' statement?
A.You never pass the ball to me.
B.Why are you so selfish with the ball?
C.I feel left out when I'm open and don't get a pass.
D.You need to learn how to be a better teammate.
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